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Helping the Behaviorally Challenging Child

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HBCC is a SoCal non-profit that helps adults identify essential skills needed for youth to enhance their mental well-being and meet expectations.


HBCC programs and trainings are evidence-based, skill focused, relational and aligned with CASEL's 5 core competencies.

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Trainings & Coaching

It can feel like the ones who are seemingly capable that exhibit behavioral challenges are giving parents & teachers a hard time on purpose. This can lead to frayed relationships, defiance, school refusal, shame and blame.


At HBCC we help parents, teachers & service providers gain insights into the limitations of motivational approaches as solutions to challenging behaviors.


HBCC trainings and coaching give actionable strategies through proven evidence-based steps so adults can effect real change from the chronic adult/child power struggles.


Join one of our upcoming trainings to help those with challenging behaviors become their most functional, fulfilled, and authentic selves with proven steps on how to:


  • build resilience and emotional balance
  • advocate for a learning environment where they can thrive
  • help build friendships that feel right
  • strengthen their executive function for daily successes
  • support their unique journey & thrive


The truth is "kids do well if they can" and "compliance is about skill not will" 


Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) is the foundation of HBCC that helps adults look at the unsolved problems BEHIND the behavior, instead of trying to extinguish and control the behavior itself.


Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) is owned and developed by Think:Kids (www.thinkkids.org), a program based in the Department of Psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital(MGH) in Boston, MA. Those CPS Certified receive ongoing supervision from T:K and are independent of MGH. 


Helping the Behaviorally Challenging Child (HBCC) is the only non-profit in SoCal offering trainings and support in-person that is focused to help adults address challenging behavior through a Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) lens. This has proven to build skills and reduce challenging behaviors and help everyone thrive. 

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Parenting & teaching challenging children isn't always easy - but you're not alone! Your donation helps support our organization's mission to make a positive impact in our community. We appreciate your generosity and support! 

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Our Impact

At HBCC we understand that the challenges, struggles and tough moments can feel overwhelming and worrisome. We are a team of peer-parent professionals who for over 15 years have helped adults just like you.


HBCC has made a significant difference in the SoCal community and in the lives of those we serve. We see you. We are you. You are raising a bright, ADHD, ASD, anxious, 2e, neurodiverse child who is full of potential. A diagnosis isn't always needed to have concerns. We are committed to maximizing the potential of ALL children and improving the lives of the adults in their lives by helping with a clear path to confidence for parents and teaching challenging children to learn their strengths, address their challenges and guide them toward shining at home, in school and with friends.


Through a Collaborative Problem Solving lens, HBCC helps adults build connection, produce calm, and bring back more lovable moments by introducing tools, support on how to produce an environment where children|adolescents|young adults feel understood and celebrated for their unique strengths and quirks to help them toward becoming their most authentic, fulfilled selves. 

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Key Points:

✔️ A child's challenging behaviors are NOT the parents' fault.

✔️ Practical guidance for meeting your child exactly where they are. 

✔️ Compassionately move your child to a place of self-control & success. 

✔️ Learn how to stop the adult/child power struggles & implement Collaborative Problem Solving®. 

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Helping the Behaviorally Challenging Child

145 W. Main Street, Suite 260, Tustin, California 92780

(714) 695-1057

Frequently Asked Questions

Reach out to us at info@hbcc.us or leave a message @ 714-695-1057

HBCC's philosophy is grounded in an evidence-based approach called Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) which is owned and developed by Think:Kids (www.thinkkids.org), a program based in the Department of Psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital(MGH) in Boston, MA. Those CPS Certified receive ongoing supervision from T:K and are independent of MGH.

HBCC is a non-profit in Orange County, California TAX ID #46-3240447 that promotes the understanding that challenging kids lack the skill, not the will, to behave well. HBCC champions rethinking challenging behaviors beyond the medical model, into the social-emotional model, and amazing results are happening. 


Social-Emotional Model 

  • Child is valued
  • Strengths and needs defined by self & others
  • Identify barriers and develop solutions
  • Outcome based programs designed  
  • Resources are made readily available to ordinary services
  • Training includes parents
  • Relationships nurtured
  • Society evolves
  • Child included
  • Diversity welcomed   
  • Professionals re-trained


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Medical Model 

  • Child is faulty, needs fixing
  • Diagnosis focused
  • Labeling
  • Impairment becomes focus of attention
  • Monitoring and behavior modification therapy imposed
  • Segregated and alternative services
  • Ordinary needs put on hold
  • Society remains unchanged 
  • Re-entry conditional 
  • Permanent exclusion if non-compliant
  • Conventional training utilized


Parent/Caregiver Classes Alternate from  

  • Weekday Evenings 7pm - 9pm
  • Weekday Mornings 10am - Noon
  • Saturday Mornings 10am - Noon

You can find Parent Classes dates|times here or on the Calendar of Events above   


Professional Trainings

  • Introduction to Collaborative Problem Solving®
  • Level 1 Essential Foundation on Collaborative Problem Solving®
  • FBA/BIP Workshops  

You can find Professional Trainings, which are designed for all professionals supporting youth, dates|times here or on the Calendar of Events above


  • Parent Classes are 6-weeks in length
  • 2 hours each session (w/5 min break)
  • Each class builds on the previous weeks class


How long are the Professional trainings? 

  • Introductory Trainings are 2 hours
  • Essential Foundation Trainings are 12 hours, 2 full days or 4 half days
  • FBA/BIP Workshops are 7 hours, 1 full day


  • Tustin (continuously)
  • Virtual (occasionally)
  • Can be scheduled at your agency, school, or privates in-home


No. The ideal is that both parents take the class at some point. It may not always be possible to take the class together at the same time due to childcare, etc. Each parent can attend their own class series, depending on schedules. Discounts apply whenever taking the course for the same child.


Single parents taking the course are encouraged to attend and build a community of supporters. It is highly beneficial to hear the approach firsthand, so grandparents, caregivers, stepparents and significant others are all encouraged to take the course when it works with schedules.


HBCC holds a 2-hour Introduction on Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) and a 12-hour Level 1 Essential foundation training which includes guidance on the roadmap to implementation.


Certification opportunities on Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) are directly through Think:Kids, who own and develop this evidence-based approach. HBCC offers guidance on navigating this option.


HBCC hosts on-going trainings, coaching and support for parents/caregivers, teachers|admin|service providers bringing adults to understand challenging behaviors through a lens that is trust-based, builds connection and durable solutions. 


HBCC highly recommends that learning Collaborative Problem Solving®(CPS) with guidance, how to become a child's advocate and operate from the belief that challenging kids lack the skill, not the will, to meet expectations. The truth is most adults receive zero training on neurodiversity and are not aware of what has been learned post-1990's during the decade of the brain.


There is a myth that kids who present well and have challenging behaviors are not living up to their potential, are willfully defiant, which in turn compounds their problems by putting more demands up on them without a foundation for addressing their challenges or lagging skills. 


At HBCC we strive to answer the question that asks, "what will help a chronically behaviorally challenging child be successful and maximize their potential?"    


Options for virtual trainings are available and can be discussed.

Please inquire if you are interested in virtual options. 

Call 714.695.1057 or email info@hbcc.us 


The parenting class at HBCC in Tustin is in-person as we believe joining with others in a safe space experiencing similar circumstances is the ideal way to learn the approach. 


The parent course is limited to 10 families per class. Parents, caregivers and guardians appreciate the company of being with others going through a similar situation in-person. They find out they are not alone! 


Overview and Advanced trainings with HBCC can be customized and done at your agency or school, or at HBCC in Tustin. For more info Advanced Trainings


The parent course training includes:

  • a binder
  • a weekly digital PowerPoint presentation
  • parent handouts
  • weekly worksheets
  • step-by-step guidance
  • weekly email summaries
  • parent coaching during class
  • Certificate of Completion 
  • optional: follow-up coaching at the end of the course
  • optional: Wednesday Night Support Groups


The CPS 2-hour Introduction training includes:

  • a digital PowerPoint presentation
  • training worksheets
  • Certificate of Completion
  • step-by-step guidance


The CPS Level 1 Essential Foundation training includes:

  • a digital PowerPoint presentation & handout
  • a training workbook and case study 
  • Certificate of Completion
  • step-by-step guidance
  • coaching during training
  • professional development CEU/PDU certificates/Graduate Credit


Yes, HBCC provides parent behavior coaching during the 6-week course and after the course is an option. Through Parent Coaching https://hbcc.us/coaching, a CPS Certified team member works with you to help empower what you are already good at and to help shore up your weaker areas. HBCC offers individual coaching and group coaching, and we also have support groups on-going, Wednesday nights https://hbcc.us/support-groups 


HBCC also offers Affiliate Classes for parents to continue your journey understanding challenging behaviors Affiliate Classes 


Give us a call at 714.695.1057 or email info@hbcc.us if you would like to discuss further. 


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 Helping the Behaviorally Challenging Child (HBCC) is a California Nonprofit Public Benefit Corporation whose mission is to enable children experiencing behavioral health challenges to lead more productive and inclusive lives.  We work to transform these children's lives by deepening adults’ understanding of their behaviors, and promoting effective interventions that focus on connectedness, collaboration, and inclusion. 


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